I think that at least 1 in 10 people has had this one moment when they were completely embarrassed and flushing red on there faces, or maybe it did not go to the extent of blushing but was a certain topic or group of people that made you feel a little less comfortable. Well I was looking through some past stuffs and I saw something that triggered my memory of this very awkward incident, and as usual I started to think of it even deeper asking myself questions like why did you even say that? and giving myself talks like you should have just left or kept quiet….but I usually fail to see that "everything" that I say throughout the whole day is recorded by the most High….. and for Him to record every single detail it means that it is at some point going to help you or someone else…..everything that happens in our lives is for a reason, including the words we speak. Therefore we should try our best to minimize the amount of regret and self-criticism that we throw to ourselves every time we encounter and embarrassing/awkward moment instead let us live it to the way it is and let God do His thing.
By this therefore I am not in any way trying to suggest that you can say anything in front of anyone at any time because it all has a reason that is yet to be unveiled NO! This is not at all the message I am trying to bring forth, all i am saying is that the words that we say should be under control at all times(because we are not some wild animal species whose mouth is always open and talking nonsense) but we are Humans hence will make mistakes at times even through our conversations with others, so do not beat yourself up for this one insignificant mistake that you made, instead think of it as a way of correction that The Almighty is trying to show you.
